Outside

"What happens outside the bedroom usually affects what happens inside the bedroom," says Dr. Kerner. If you and your mate have a spat, it may be wise to repair the argument before you go to bed. Dr. Kerner also suggests making a joke or giving your partner a kiss if you feel a conversation is headed toward a disagreement.

Stroke His Ego

"Find out what your man wants and do it for him," says Logan. Affirm his self-esteem with a compliment or by doing something special. "I tell my husband that he is the sexiest man I know as often as possible. I want him to know that he is still that hot guy I thought he was when we first met," says Beth Pisano of Hutchinson, Kansas.

Indulge in Yourself

"Women tend to place everyone else before them, often putting their self-care on a back burner," says Dr. Fulbright. "The more a woman looks after her health and welfare—for example, the more she exercises—the better she will feel and the more she'll be in the mood for sex." Dr. Kerner suggests that women dress up for themselves: Once you like the way you look, you'll feel sexy and confident, and that alone will get your heart pumping.

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